eMBEAMy

After a while that I have been questioning myself on what good for the future, what i should have and should not. I have lost in direction since i knew a new business called Unicity.

Unicity is a global company producing wellness solutions goods - Health and Beauty. It was recommended to me from my bro-in-a training course, Landmark Forum. He was a successful business owner in a Brand design company and Cable TV. He is nice and fun... He shows me unicity business plan and his plan in the future. He makes me realized that to be an employee is such an ugly-cycle. Cuz'  even you will succeed  in company, being a management team... then so what ! Finally, when you turn to 60, you will retire anyway. And that time, you will get nothing from the company, just an applause from subordinate and a lil money from the company. You will have got no money later, still spending forever. No one gonna build a monument for you according to your contribution for pass 20 years.

Even worse, if you sacrifice yourself for a company for more than 10 years, work best, be a good employee, finally, economic downturn; what would company do unless kick your ass out of the company. I saw one of my colleage at Ogilvy PR. He have been working for more than 20 years for the company. He sacrifice himself for the company. Every colleage loves him.  He is also a husband for his wife, father for his children and bread for his family. One day, he was called  to meet a Chairman on the top room. There is only a word from the chairman mouth.... "I am sorry to say that It is your last day...Thank you for working for our company for 20 years, it downturn we need to keep the rests. Hope you will understand."

Is that the gift from the worldclass company for the employee who have been sacrifice himself?  

Then.... I realized... To plant a mango tree in other yard...what if there is a lot of mangoes...who takes the benefits. What if you plant in your own yard ... then a lot of mango... you will get it all right??

edit @ 6 Sep 2009 14:50:00 by eMBEAMy

So Exciting!!!!

Tomorrow is my real date after being in a relationship for 3 years. Moreover, it is my Birthday. I am going to turn 25 years old.

After long entired work last friday, I went to have a meeting with my partners and the gangs. We have spent time together on sharing the business idea to prospect partners. Then all works are finished around 9.30 p.m. at True Coffee @ Central Ladprao. A beautiful waitress came to our group and said that the door will be closed in 15 minutes. One of my team asked her when the shop usually closed. She said with unnice voice that "Now at 9.30". Well.... Alright... we will move out.

After moving out from the coffee shop, we are going to have dinner... actually... It would be supper... we went to a noodle kiosk nearby Central Ladprao. This is a famous super delicious Tom Yum noodle in the world. Unlucky, I can not eat it cuz it is Kway Teo Moo Tom Yum. However, I enjoy hanging around with them.

One said "what we are goin to do on this Friday night"... "Are we going to sleep???"... We will accept only right answer "Nope".

So what are we going to do? One said "Let's go play CASHFLOW game". Actually, I have heard about this game for long and long time, but i ve never get a chance to play. Suddenly I decided to go to my friends' condo to play the game.

Then....My Breaktrough has taked place from there...

CashFlow game is very special game...It simulates and reflects our real life. It mainly reflects on how do you earn and spend money dailies. Whatever you do whoever you are will be shown in this game.

I got a Miracle...I win the game...Awhile ago I have been inquering for myself and  I could have not found any right answers until I played this game. A series of questions has stuck in my head are "why we are working and when we can stop working".... blah blah blah

I admit that I work for money... but I do not believe that Money is everything...I do realize on something else...such as happiness. Only money could not bring me happiness, furthermore, what I would like to have is "TIME" ...

Eventhough we can see clock or watch to know the time...we cant really see the time in tangible because it is so fast to catch up.

We actually sell time day by day for a routine life, suck a job, or even worse for suck jobsss.

Only few people realize that time is to something earn... to save... and then to share.

Time goes by fastly...Imagine that we have been spending time on working until retire at aged 60. And we look backward to the past... we only see ourself spend time for working in circle. nothing to get...no excitement...no hapiness.  Then we may ask ourself "Is that called "LIFE ?". I should have done something in the past.  What would you like to be... do....have....???? Is your Dream still there...or automatically dissappear when you grow up.

I have a dream since I was young. At first, I thought that I have a big dream...I feel good of thinking big. But after I know my partners' dream... my dream seems so small... cuz they are think bigger ... much bigger than mine. Their thought, for instance, like to be an astronaught...to travel around moon. It sounds crazy, isnt it? Actually it is not... we can dream for everything....the bigger dream you have the greater you are.

Back to my inquiries on the when and why we are working or to stop working, I found that I would not like to sell my time to my job until 60. Still I have no idea when to stop working. After playing the CashFlow Game. I found the answer for myself and my life is I will work until I do not have to work. I got the secret that I have to earn some assets that it could earn money for me forever. Still I dont have any strong reason for stop working. I think even you are rich, you have to work to earn more money. Eventually, I realize that deeply in my heart that i dont think i can stop working is i think it is so normal to work. Most of people are working. So i think we have to do it like them.

The Breakthrough is I get the way to live better without working anymore.

Thank all for the game... Love you guys.

edit @ 3 Aug 2009 23:08:31 by eMBEAMy

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edit @ 3 Aug 2009 23:23:39 by eMBEAMy